Mental Health

AAPI Month: Christine Park

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Our next featured mental health practitioner is Christine Park, a multi-talented clinician and artist. Christine’s honesty and advocacy on behalf of the AAPI community inspires me. Thank you, Christine, for taking time to share with all of us!

Neshia Alaovae (NA): How do you like to introduce yourself to new friends?

Christine Park (CP): I'm a second generation Korean-American art therapist, born and raised in the greater Seattle area. 

NA: What does your work involve?

CP: I work at a community mental heath agency with kids and families. 

NA: What is something that you want people to know about mental health? About AAPI mental health?

CP: My family of origin hadn't initially acknowledged the existence of mental health as a concept. Several have changed over time. The ones who haven't to this day prioritize values that don't align smoothly with the idea of giving attention to one's own mental health. I've seen many AAPI's suffer from emotional pain and mental fatigue, and I've seen many attempt therapy. But will a white therapist really get the nuanced experiences of generationally transmitted war-inflicted (emotional) poverty, rapidly shifting tides of younger generations' Westernized lifestyles clashing with millennia-long Confucian ways of being, the unremarkable fact that graphing dad's weekly moods looks exactly like the Dow Jones performance chart, etc., etc . . . Probably not.

There are articles out there that attempt to explain the typical AAPI's fear and shame of the label "crazy," as well as ideas of it being a burden to share emotions or "show signs of weakness" . . . Yeah sure, it can show up that way. But it's something else to grasp the deeply rooted value systems and ideologies and core beliefs and all the other inexplicable stuff when they're consistent with yours.

It's hard for me to see AAPI's suffer. But cultural competency work is like all the work we do as therapists. We refuse to be rigid, we hold our frames with open hands, we keep pushing ourselves to learn, we ask good questions to ourselves and the people we interact with, and we love. 

NA: What are your go-to's for taking care of your own mental health?

CP:  I get into my body. I'm definitely a minority at the Crossfit gym, and sometimes even more when I go lift weights, but the process of getting strong sharpens my mind, and the feeling of being strong harnesses all my power.

NA: What about your cultural or ethnic identity do you appreciate the most?

CP: Too many things! But one thing I keep going back to is 정. It's not quite possible to define in English, but in a simplistic way, it's love, spoken or unspoken, and loyalty, community, compassion, affection . . . a connection that builds over time. It's 정 that kept our family together when I'm a hundred percent sure the typical American family would have divorced. Really though. I'm learning more about the flavor of 정 every time I interact with my family, my community, and my clients.


Celebrating AAPI Heritage & Mental Health Awareness Month

If you have been following my practice on Instagram (@southseattlecounseling), you will know that we have been highlighting the experiences of Asians, Asian-Americans and Pacific Islanders (AAPI) throughout May in honor of AAPI Heritage Month and Mental Health Awareness Month. To help with the celebration, I asked some of my AAPI colleagues to share their involvement in mental health care and how their cultural identities shape who they are. I am grateful for each of these diverse practitioners and am excited to share some of their wisdom with you!

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First up is the incredible Mindy Lu (pictured above), who always brightens the room with her positive energy and insightful approach. Mindy is the founder of Sunrise Nutrition, an amazing practice that combines nutrition and mental health counseling. Enjoy Mindy’s interview!


NA (Neshia Alaovae): How do you like to introduce yourself to new friends?

ML (Mindy Lu): Hi, I'm Mindy! I'm a nutritionist who's also therapist - and a therapist who's also a nutritionist. I love that special place where food and emotions intersect. I also love traveling, watching tons of television, eating lots of cake and spending time with my husband and our dog, Beemo. 

NA: What does your work involve?

ML: I specialize in food and body work. My favorite type of healing is helping people have a peaceful relationship with food, themselves and their body. A negative relationship with food and body image is one of the most under-reported traumas because dieting and body shaming is so normalized in our culture. My work is based in social justice and feminist values as well. 

NA: What is something that you want people to know about mental health? About AAPI mental health?

ML: Oh man, it's so important for people to know that it's okay to have conflicted feelings about food and what their bodies look like. We live in a culture that glamorizes food and certain bodies, but never gives space to those who struggle with it. As far as AAPI mental health - I always acknowledge the amount of body shaming that is a part of so many Asian cultures . . . and then I call it out. Just because it's been around forever doesn't mean it's right. Never be afraid to stand up and advocate for your body and your needs. 

NA: What are your go-to's for taking care of your own mental health?

ML: I disconnect in all ways - mentally, emotionally and physically and focus on allowing myself to do whatever I want . . . and that includes nothing, sometimes. Sometimes, it's getting a massage, or doing the thing on my to-do list I don't want to do, or the laundry, or binge-watching a show on Netflix. Drawing and honoring boundaries has also been really helpful. Lastly, my self-care regimen also includes my own therapy. My therapist rocks. 

NA: What about your cultural or ethnic identity do you appreciate the most?

ML: I love connecting with my culture (I'm Taiwanese-American) through food - learning old family recipes, trying new ones, and reading through cookbooks that feature Taiwanese and Chinese cuisine. Taiwan and China have such rich histories and approaching them from the food lens is fascinating. 

You can find out more about Mindy’s work by checking out her website, following her on Instagram (@hellosunrisenutrition), or emailing her at Thanks for all you do, Mindy!

5 Tips for Good Fall Mental Health


As we say goodbye to summer and hello to the colder months, many people are reaching into their closets and getting their wardrobes ready for winter. Are you doing the same kind of preparation for your mental health?

Though Seattle is not as rainy as other parts of the country (looking at you Kauai and Mobile, Alabama), it does get an average of 154 rain days a year, most of which fall between October and May. Translation: we’re about to begin a long, wet, grey season.

Here are 5 steps I am taking as a psychotherapist to make sure that I am coming into fall in the best mental health state as possible:

  1. Exercising regularly. I am not a huge fan of gyms but I do know that when I exercise 3-5 times a week, just like my doctor recommends, I have more energy, sleep better and feel less stressed. Studies show that exercise helps alleviate the symptoms of anxiety, depression and grief so I am committing to stay active even as the weather changes.

  2. Maintaining a helpful sleep schedule. Speaking of sleep, though I am a morning person and don’t need a lot of zzz’s to feel rested, I also know that the lack of sunlight in the colder months tricks my body into thinking it’s tired - and sad - even if I need to be alert and present for hours to come. One of the key tenets of sleep hygiene, a helpful and respected cognitive behavioral health concept for getting more rest, is going to bed and waking up at a consistent time - even on weekends. I know that getting the rest I need will help my moods and clarity stay light throughout the fall and winter. Learn more about sleep hygiene and how to make better sleeping habits here.

  3. Get Vitamin D. Vitamin D is a nutrient and hormone that helps grow and maintain healthy bones. Additionally, Vitamin D has been shown to help alleviate depression. Though Vitamin D is naturally occurring, it’s hard to get the amount you need through food alone. The best way is either getting exposure to direct sunshine (while using sunscreen and other covering to protect your skin) or by taking Vitamin D supplements. This means that I will be outside as much as possible whenever the sun is shining this fall and I will be picking up a new bottle of Vitamin D pills promptly. Ask your doctor if taking Vitamin D supplements is right for you.

  4. Do not isolate! It’s easy for me to use cold and wet weather as an excuse not to see people I care about or to leave my home for that matter. However, though hours of Netflix might sound relaxing in the moment, I know that continuing to foster relationships and be with my community goes a much longer way to reminding me that I am loved and needed. Though depression and anxiety can make it difficult to be social, coaxing yourself into being in safe, supportive places actually helps rewire your brain into more positive, happier moods.

  5. Practice gratitude. My excuse for why I hate being cold is that my ancestors were from hot places. I’m not built for northern winters. The cold combined with the busy nature of fall can make it easy for me to get grumpy so I will be making it a priority to write down at least three nouns (people, places and things) that I am grateful for every single day. Research and my personal experience shows that practicing gratitude allows people to be more attuned to the details of our lives, feel more happiness and be more optimistic. According to this article from UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, gratitude also has significant physical and social benefits.

What steps are you taking to make this a healthy, happy season?